When you’re having a baby it can be one of the most exciting times in your life. You and your partner have to wait nine whole months before you can meet the little being, though. While you know it will happen at some point, it’s easy to get impatient and want to know this person now. Luckily the Tarot is here to help you out. Obviously it can’t paint you a totally accurate picture, but it can get you started in your relationship with your child before it’s born. If this sounds like something you’re interested in, then take these tips to your psychic and get started on your Tarot reading.
When you’re getting ready to go to your reading take the time to try and connect with the baby inside of the mother’s stomach. If you’re the mother then that’s probably going to be a bit easier since you’re literally growing this person, but even as the father spending some time with your head against her belly can help you feel closer. This obviously works for gay couples as well, it just means having access to the pregnant woman’s stomach. If this isn’t possible, don’t fret, you can still get a clear picture by imagining your future child in your mind’s eye. The important part is to focus on it and strengthen your connection. You may also want to bring something along with you that will belong to the baby. Even though right now the baby has no relationship with it, you can use it for the love and thought that you put into getting it for your child.
What to Ask
Most psychics aren’t surprised when people come in with Tarot requests that involve other people. Generally the rule is that if you are asking about a person and their connection to you, everything is fine. It’s when you go into it with concrete questions and expected answers that things get thrown off. Your psychic should guide you in a way that allows you to have the presence of the infant in your thoughts but no specific expectations as to what you’re going to get from your reading. Simply say that you want to get to know your unborn child and they will happily oblige.
When you’re getting your reading done, you’ll find that the most common traits that pop up are what their temperament might be like, the road that you’ll travel as parents, and some things to give you an outside perspective. Parenting is hard, so don’t be afraid to ask the psychic for different spreads or methods of readings if you have concerns. It can be a wonderful way to ease some fears and get a head start when you’re working out your co-parenting kinks. Also keep in mind that the psychic isn’t there to give you baby names or tell you what color hair they will have. It’s not entirely impossible, but it’s also not quite the point of trying to get to know your baby.